Most nice, good-hearted people do for others with a slight ulterior motive - we hope that when we are in need, our friends will come through for us as we did for them. Some people can transcend this quality and are selfless, completely giving. There is, however, one situation when every person has the chance to display this true altruism, expecting nothing in return. This is called a "chesed shel emet" - pure kindness - marked by its genuineness.
Attending a funeral, serving as a pallbearer, participating in covering the grave are all examples of kindness and respect one can render to the deceased without expecting anything in return.
While all of these behaviors may be noted and appreciated by the deceased’s family, ultimately the act of kindness is for the benefit of the person who has died.
If we can demonstrate selfless behavior in one context, surely we can do it elsewhere as well.
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